How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 08:07
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
What are some cute stories with your crush?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What is the sluttiest thing your wife has ever done?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do you usually wear your panties over or under your pantyhose?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do guys prefer big boobs or small boobs? Why?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Is anal sex allowed in Islam? It's not written anywhere in the Quran whether it's forbidden or not.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Have you ever been forced to undress for money just once?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Procrastinates a lot.
What do you think, TikTok is nothing but another porn site? Do you agree or not? Why?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
Ask yourself:
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Why am I so unproductive when it's a holiday the next day?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What are some effective ways to cope with loss and grief?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?